Sara nominated me for the “Versatile Blogger Award”, which is a great excuse to be able to blog and yammer on about myself without actually having to have a finished project to blog about. Thanks, Sara! Apparently, I should reveal to you seven things about myself and then do some nominating of my own.
Thing 1: I am a working mom, and I love it. Don’t get me wrong, I have absolutely nothing against those who make the stay-at-home lifestyle choice. My own mom was a SAHM until we were all in grade school, and I think she did a great job. I just bring this up as an important thing about myself because I often get comments from other people who either A.) Assume I would rather be at home and pity me. or B.) Assume that I am a SAHM. Like the perfectly nice wife of one of my husband’s coworkers who asked me at a party, “What did you do before you had Alice?” (referring to my career, which she assumed I had given up). I love having a career, and I think I would go crazy if I had to stay at home all day. Being a mom is wonderful and awesome, but I think I am able to appreciate my time with my kiddo all the more by having a break from mom status for 40 hours per week. Despite its folksy grammar, I’m a firm believer in “If mama ain’t happy, ain’t no one happy.” By doing what makes me happy, I think I am a better mom, and it’s better for my daughter to see me happy and fulfilled. Of course, I don’t think that just applies to “mama”. “Daddy” needs to be happy too, and it chafes me a bit that in our society still it’s OK for women to make the choice to stay home, but men aren’t given that choice (at least 90% of the time). It has to be something that both partners work out (before they ever have kids). OK, this Thing 1 is getting awfully long and ranty. I promise to make the other things shorter.
Thing 2: I am left-handed, or perhaps more accurate would be to say “almost ambidextrous”. I can do everything with both hands except write. Given the look of my handwriting these days though, even that is questionable. I have to admit I was a little disappointed when Alice showed very strong right handed tendencies early on. Not because I’m an elitist or anything, but because in my experience left handed people tend to use both hands more equally just because we are forced to adapt to so many environmental challenges in a right-handed world. Being able to rotary cut fabric with both hands switching off is extremely handy!
Thing 3: I am agnostic (here I go again with BIG things, but, hey, it’s got to get said sometimes right?). According to the Wikipedia article on Agnosticism, I am “Apathetic or Pragmatic Agnostic” which is, “The view that there is no proof of either the existence or nonexistence of any deity, but since any deity that may exist appears unconcerned for the universe or the welfare of its inhabitants, the question is largely academic.” Yep, that’s my belief in a nutshell. I am totally respectful of other people’s beliefs, and I don’t think I have all the answers. I just don’t personally believe there’s a higher power. That said, it really bugs me when people tell me that Jesus loves me or ask me to pray for something. I just hate it when people make assumptions about me (see Thing 1 above).
Thing 4: I have a really acute sense of smell (and even more so when pregnant). This is not a good thing. Do you realize how many more bad smells are in the world than good ones? Even the things that are suppose to smell good are headache inducing for me, like any perfume or scented candle or incense.
Thing 5: I don’t have cable or any network television. We just watch DVDs of TV shows and Netflix in my house. I haven’t seen a television commercial in a really long time, so I have no idea what people are talking about when they talk about different commercials. We got a cable deal one year, so we signed up and watched it like three times. Hundreds of channels and never anything on but commercials. When Jason called to cancel it, the lady said with a note of disbelieving horror in her voice, “But what are you going to watch?!”
Thing 6:I actually appreciated childhood while I was a child. I was extremely responsible and mature and well-adjusted, yet I played pretend games with my younger siblings and cousins right up until I went away to college. On my sixteen birthday, we had friends visiting with younger kids, so we played dress-up, and I was a castle guard with brown eyeshadow to make fake stubble on my face. I love that my daughter is in the age of pretending now. It’s a magical thing.
Thing 7: Relating to Thing 6, I do not take myself seriously. Most people who know me probably think of me as a serious, quiet person, but when Halloween rolls around, I am the first to dress up in some elaborate and ridiculous costume all the while keeping my reserved demeanor. I also have a pretty good sense of humor I think–it’s just a little on the dry side.
OK, now it’s my turn to nominate someone, but I always hate this part because I don’t know who’s already been nominated, but what the heck. I’m nominating Christina, the Sometimes Crafter because her blog is one of the most versatile I read with all the different crafts she indulges in.